Wednesday, 18 April 2012

adab .

assalamualaikum ^^ 

mmmm a few weeks back , ada a friend of mine tanya something like this " kita kena beradab with orang yang beradab je ke ? " 
ada laa macam-macam comments from others like "yeahh , i agree " and ada yang " entah laa , suka hati laa kot ".to be frank , i have two different opinions in this matter ^^ first , i guess i have to agree , sebab sometimes yang tak beradab ni berlagak macam dia je bagus, ohh puhleaseee , go kill yourself =.=" at least maybe we could teach these people a lesson to learn .
but ! 
i thought of the consequences , kalau macam kita tak beradab with these impolite people , we trashtalk them and stuff , and in the end , its just prove that we are just like them . tak macam a waste ke ? kita kutuk-kutuk orang tuh , but somehow theres not much difference pun between them and us . 
so i came up with second opinion saying that we should be polite with everybody , so that the impolite people would learn the right lesson to learn , not otherwise . lagipun , Rasulullah SAW sangatlah beradab with everone even dicaci , dihina and sebagainya . kita ni tak dihina or dicaci pun tapi suka sangat overreacting or exaggerate things . chill laa , if someone accidentally hit you , or whatever , be cool and smile , and walk away . tak payah laa nak gaduh tumbuk-tumbuk semua . 
so selamat beramal yeahh :)